{"id":12368,"date":"2025-06-22T13:16:00","date_gmt":"2025-06-22T13:16:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/dev2025-2-2.movesflash.com\/?p=12368"},"modified":"2025-06-22T13:30:16","modified_gmt":"2025-06-22T13:30:16","slug":"seen-and-not-heard-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/dev2025-2-2.movesflash.com\/index.php\/2025\/06\/22\/seen-and-not-heard-2\/","title":{"rendered":"Seen and Not Heard"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>So this past weekend reminded me why I hate guys. Yes, true, there\u2019s that occasional diamond-in-the-rough guy who treats you like a princess and is gorgeous to boot, but overall the male population just isn\u2019t cutting it.<br>Here\u2019s where my animosity started up again: So the other day I was out shopping by myself, debating whether to spend thirty-five dollars on another solid v-neck tee to add to my collection, when a felt someone come up close behind me, a low voice breathed, \u201cHey there pretty girl. You\u2019re lookin\u2019 so good.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I whipped around, armed with some big words and the unmistakable \u201cF-off, creep\u201d look, and came face to face with a twelve-year-old. A freakin\u2019 preteen! Okay, Okay, so maybe he wasn\u2019t twelve. But he was definitely fresh out of middle school. I was so stunned I couldn\u2019t even flash a decent dirty look.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>For the rest of the week I couldn\u2019t get that kid off of my mind. Is this what the world is really coming to? Little boys are looking up to their older brothers, uncles, and fathers as role models. Is \u201chey sexy\u201d what they\u2019re learning about respecting women? What happened to those great guys who learned how to treat women from their moms? Women now expect men to act this way, and accept second-hand compliments like \u201cyour ass looks great\u201d and \u201cI can\u2019t wait to get you home tonight.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So boys, what\u2019s with the cat-calling?! Whether it\u2019s getting felt up on the subway or hearing flattering words yelled at you from truck drivers, this kind of behavior has just become disgusting. Someone needs to explain to me why guys think it\u2019s O.K. to talk to girls like that, especially girls they don\u2019t even know. If this conduct is spreading to the point where guys not yet out of puberty think it\u2019s ok to talk to women this way, then some serious readjusting needs to happen. So here it is guys, step up!! Be a real man and treat the women around you the way they deserve to be treated! You want to know what women really want? Well here it is: sincere compliments and sweet gestures. Simple for you and perfect for us. Cause chivalry sure isn\u2019t dead and \u201cdamnnn girlll\u201d won\u2019t get you anywhere with the good ones.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>So this past weekend reminded me why I hate guys. 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