{"id":11844,"date":"2025-03-02T08:44:27","date_gmt":"2025-03-02T08:44:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/dev2025-2-2.movesflash.com\/index.php\/2025\/03\/02\/dont-wait-for-someone-else-to-shape-your-life-shape-it-yourself\/"},"modified":"2025-03-02T08:44:27","modified_gmt":"2025-03-02T08:44:27","slug":"dont-wait-for-someone-else-to-shape-your-life-shape-it-yourself","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/dev2025-2-2.movesflash.com\/index.php\/2025\/03\/02\/dont-wait-for-someone-else-to-shape-your-life-shape-it-yourself\/","title":{"rendered":"\u201c\u201dDon\u2019t wait for someone else to shape your life. Shape it yourself\u201d\u2026"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\u2013 Anon<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve recently become single, which I have no problem with. However, all of my friends happen to be in relationships at the moment. And all of them want to set me up. Desperately. I know it comes from a good place and they just want to have some fun and see me have fun, but I have no interest in going on blind dates and then expected to meet the love of my life. It feels like whenever we go out now, they feel bad I don\u2019t have my person to go home to. They tell me they\u2019re gonna wing-woman and then when I tell them to stop they assume I miss my ex! I need more single friends or to get into a relationship because this is not working! Leave me alone! Being single and happy can exist in the same person.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u2013 Anon I\u2019ve recently become single, which I have no problem with. However, all of my friends happen to be in relationships at the moment. And all of them want to set me up. Desperately. I know it comes from a good place and they just want to have some fun and see me have [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":11845,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":"","_links_to":"","_links_to_target":""},"categories":[40],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-11844","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-why-not"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/dev2025-2-2.movesflash.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11844","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/dev2025-2-2.movesflash.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/dev2025-2-2.movesflash.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dev2025-2-2.movesflash.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dev2025-2-2.movesflash.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=11844"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/dev2025-2-2.movesflash.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11844\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dev2025-2-2.movesflash.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/11845"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/dev2025-2-2.movesflash.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=11844"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dev2025-2-2.movesflash.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=11844"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dev2025-2-2.movesflash.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=11844"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}