{"id":11675,"date":"2025-02-24T12:21:00","date_gmt":"2025-02-24T12:21:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/dev2025-2-2.movesflash.com\/index.php\/2025\/02\/24\/don-juan-dickheads\/"},"modified":"2025-02-24T12:21:00","modified_gmt":"2025-02-24T12:21:00","slug":"don-juan-dickheads","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/dev2025-2-2.movesflash.com\/index.php\/2025\/02\/24\/don-juan-dickheads\/","title":{"rendered":"Don Juan Dickheads"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>It drives me insane when I am trying to have an interaction with the guy at<br \/>\nthe deli or wherever, that should just be simple and over in a heartbeat,<br \/>\nbut instead I am forced into an interaction where I have no choice but to<br \/>\nbe either flirtatious or a bitch. I cannot be merely pleasant. He has to<br \/>\nmake it all about my femaleness. I want this bottle of water, here take some<br \/>\nmoney, have a nice day, bye. It is hilarious when you tell me that my drink<br \/>\ncosts $10, and then when I look confused, you say you are just kidding<br \/>\nbecause I am so beautiful. Definitely the highpoint of my day, right there.<br \/>\nWe don&#8217;t need to joke or flirt, and you wouldn&#8217;t do any of this with a male<br \/>\ncustomer, and it is annoying and condescending. I don&#8217;t want to feel that<br \/>\nthe fact that I am a girl makes our fleeting moment together all about the<br \/>\nfact that I&#8217;m a freaking girl, man! Don&#8217;t point it out, I am aware each day<br \/>\nthat I am a girl as I feel the eyes of creeps boring holes in my ass and<br \/>\nbreasts. When you make it abundantly clear that you, too are aware of my<br \/>\nwomanly attributes, it makes me feel caged in. Give me my money back, keep your sexist water.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It drives me insane when I am trying to have an interaction with the guy at the deli or wherever, that should just be simple and over in a heartbeat, but instead I am forced into an interaction where I have no choice but to be either flirtatious or a bitch. I cannot be merely [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":9297,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":"","_links_to":"","_links_to_target":""},"categories":[43],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-11675","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-bitch"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/dev2025-2-2.movesflash.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11675","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/dev2025-2-2.movesflash.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/dev2025-2-2.movesflash.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dev2025-2-2.movesflash.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dev2025-2-2.movesflash.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=11675"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/dev2025-2-2.movesflash.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11675\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dev2025-2-2.movesflash.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/9297"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/dev2025-2-2.movesflash.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=11675"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dev2025-2-2.movesflash.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=11675"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dev2025-2-2.movesflash.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=11675"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}