I DO… (I think that’s right)

I DO… (I think that’s right)
I have always reveled in gaudy, over the top weddings. I love to see the beautiful dress, gorgeous venue, and everything else. I’m sold! However, the standard for ridiculous weddings (and let’s face it the money spent on these parties is ridiculous) is constantly being raised. How it will look on social media is now the 100% main consideration for wedding planners. The semi-professional video that used to do for the bride to look back on is now in the bin. Bigger, brighter, brasher… and viewable… is now the standard for everyone. However even that pales with Indy Blue’s recent wedding which has gone viral on Tik Tok; it is the most insane event I’ve ever seen. The bride and groom had multiple photoshoots beforehand, which she has vintage designer clothing for every single occasion. She wore a huge feathered hat instead of a veil on her wedding day. The venue was this luxury garden type situation. Everyone is discussing the details of this wedding as if they will be able to recreate these details. This wedding must have cost an even more insane amount of money and should not be compared to any normal person’s celebration. I believe there used to be a line before normal weddings and the royal family weddings. Now it seems that the line is blurred. Your wedding should be catered to your tastes. Huge weddings feel impersonal. The postability of your big day should certainly not be the factor that it has become.